Traveling Light

Begging the question

Mon Aug 14, 11:00 AM ET

Should you ever travel to Santo Domingo, the capital of the Dominican Republic, there's a good chance you'll meet Francisco in the city's humid, touristy colonial zone.  Barefoot, emaciated, and filthy from sleeping in the street, Francisco looks far older than his 19 years, and his wavering gaze carries a look of hardened desperation.

I met Francisco — or, rather, he made it a point to meet me — when I was sitting on a bench near Independence Park, on my first full day in the city.  After chatting me up for a few minutes (asking how I liked Santo Domingo, and inquiring about my favorite baseball teams) Francisco got down to business.  "I'm homeless," he said, "and I haven't eaten all day.  Can you give me 100 pesos for some food?"

I'd sensed this was coming, but something seemed a little suspicious about Francisco.  "You speak great English," I said.  "You must be educated."

"I'm not educated," he said.  "Not really.  I lived with my uncle in New Jersey for a couple years, but they made me leave the country after 9/11, and it's hard to find work here in Santo Domingo.  Please, 100 pesos is nothing for you.  It's not even three dollars."

This was true enough — and it was obvious that Francisco had indeed been sleeping in the street — but I'd never been comfortable handing out money to strangers.  "I haven't had lunch yet," I said.  "Come to the restaurant and eat with me."

Francisco agreed to come, though he seemed vaguely disappointed by the proposition.  When we got to a nearby cafeteria, he suggested I just give him the 100 pesos, claiming he could get bigger portions at a restaurant in a poorer neighborhood.  When I suggested we go to this restaurant together, Francisco said it was too far away to walk, and asked again for 100 pesos.  I refused, and when our sandwiches arrived, Francisco continued to goad me for money.  Eventually I became irritated, and slapped down 50 pesos. 

Francisco took the money, finished his sandwich, and was gone in under a minute, leaving me to deal with the sickly mix of emotions I feel whenever I wind up in such situations: anger, pity, resentment, guilt.

Over the course of the next week in Santo Domingo, I slowly discovered just how ill advised my investment in Francisco had been.  Contrary to what he'd said, there was no shortage of work in Santo Domingo:  Most all of this physical labor was done by Haitian immigrants, who toiled in the heat while the likes of Francisco lolled in the shade and hustled tourists for money.  Moreover, I began to notice that the colonial zone was home to other, more needful beggars: amputees; elderly blind men; women with painfully withered limbs.  Francisco, who was young and able-bodied, had likely used my 50 pesos to invest in a brief chemical high — glue, most likely, or possibly some cheap form of speed.

I share this incident not to preach some tidy lesson about dealing with the needy as you travel, but simply to illustrate my frustration at the moral ambiguity of the whole issue of beggars.  Indeed, after ten years of traveling in developing nations, I still have no hard and fast system on how to respond to them.  Usually, whether or not I give depends on some combination of my mood, the appearance and persistence of the beggar, and whether or not I have small change.  And, regardless of whether I give money or choose not to, I always end up feeling a little guilty.

This sense of guilt, I believe, is at the heart of the whole traveler-beggar issue.  Life is not fair, after all, and traveling to poor countries (or seeing poor people in rich countries) only underscores this fact. 

Still, handing out money solves few problems.  Who, after all, do you give to?  Everyone?  Only the worst looking cases?  And how much?  And how often?

Moreover, this very sense of guilt is part of the "marketing" for hustler-beggars and needful beggars alike — and that's why children get forced into beggary, drug-addled mothers beg with sickly babies in-hand, and tourist zones invariably attract hordes of disheveled panhandlers.  With the rise of urbanization in the past 50 years, some people can make more money begging in the cities than toiling in the countryside.  And, in many parts of the world (perhaps most famously in India, Kenya, and among the Gypsies in Europe), begging rings are tied to organized crime, and very little of the money actually goes to the beggars themselves. 

Thus, while I offer no universal solutions as to how to deal with beggars on the road, my travel experiences have taught me a few principles to help navigate this sadly common and difficult situation:

1) Spend some time in the community before you give to beggars

This was perhaps my primary mistake in dealing with Francisco.  Not only will a few days of immersion in the local culture give you a better sense for which beggars are and are not truly needy — it will also give you a sense for the spending power of the local currency.

Moreover, a little cultural familiarity will allow you to see how locals react to beggars: when they give money, and how much they choose to give.  Most of the world's spiritual traditions have time-honored practices for helping the needy, and following these local religious protocols is often the most culturally appropriate way to give money.  In less religious societies, such as those in Western Europe, state funds are often available for the homeless and indigent, theoretically eliminating the need for hunger-based beggary.

Donations to local charities and NGOs are another solution for helping the needy in a given community — though you should research aid organizations carefully, since many such agencies are notorious for siphoning money into bloated administrative overhead.

2) Practice skepticism

My second mistake with Francisco was that I failed to practice proper discernment when I chose to give.  This in mind, try and donate to those who truly need it (physical deformities are usually a reliable indicator of need), and try to avoid putting money into the hands of hustlers.  Any able-bodied beggar who is too aggressive, charming, accusatory, persistent, melodramatic, or (in non-Anglophone countries) good at English is probably working a scam, trying to raise drug money, or avoiding legitimate work.

Children who beg are always a tough call, since it's natural to feel sympathy for them.  I almost never give to child beggars, however, because child beggary is so often tied to organized crime and familial exploitation.  Moreover, even if a given kid is begging independently of opportunistic adults, I find it best not to reinforce this behavior at such a young age.  Some travelers suggest giving pens or other educational supplies to child beggars, but I find this strategy a tad credulous.  Better to give school supplies (or money) to an actual school or aid agency in a developing country than to presume these items will go to good use at random.

3) Don't be afraid to say no

It's better to give out of conviction than guilt, so don't give if you truly don't want to.  Some travelers I know even have a policy of never giving to beggars at all (reasoning that their donation stands to create as many problems as it solves), and this is as legitimate a way as any to deal with the situation.  Beggars realize that what they're doing is a numbers game, and that not everyone who walks past is going to give them money. 

4) You're not saving the day

Giving money to a person on the street may make that person's day a little better, but rarely will it do much to actually change his or her life.  Individual travelers are rarely more than a fleeting presence in the lives of beggars, so keep things in perspective, remain humble, and don't condemn those travelers who choose not to give. 

5) Be courteous

It is perfectly normal protocol to ignore beggars in a given situation (they're used to it), but don't lecture them on how they should live their life or spend their money.   In other words, remember the essential humanity of the needy as you travel, and don't presume the presence of beggars is somehow an affront to your vacation.  After all, as a traveler you are a mere guest in a faraway place, and they have just as much right as you to hang out at a given landmark, a public square, or tourist attraction. 

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Years ago as a young college kid I worked in a small convenience store in Manhattan's Upper East Side to earn some extra money. There was this beggar in his early thirties often came into our store to exchange coins those kind people gave him into dollar bills. He was severely crippled in one foot, so naturally he struggled with his walk. I felt deeply sorry for him every time when I saw him come into our store, and thought to myself that how life would be much better for this guy if he were not maimed. Well, talking about miracles. One afternoon he came into our store to exchange coins as usual, we got into a conversation while only two of us were in the store. All of sudden his crippled leg was straightened and he appeared to a man with strong and healthy limbs. He then (he must be in a good mood) went on to show me how to fool people by disguising/acting as someone with grave physical disabilities. I couldn't believe my eyes. Oh my Lord, all this time I thought he was physically challenged and deserved all my sympathy!!! Consequently, I personally would be very cautious when running into beggars with physical deformities. Sometimes it's hard to tell if the beggar is "acting," or is genuinely disabled. Besides, I have read reports that people with deformaties or disabilities are tied with organized crime rings and/or familiar exploitations. The situation is very similiar to child beggars. In my personal opinion, the best way to help the local people is through reputed charities. If you are not sure which charity to give, you could contact the local police station to request for information, if it's possible. Or, upon your return from your trip, you may do some search on charities that have been helping your focus group of people, then make your contribution to such a charity.
Posted by angelhhs2 on Mon, Aug 14, 2006 4:08 PM ET
Being born in Dominican Republic, i know what is this all about, even me, a local have been fooled many, many times by the so call "beggars" that are like a plague in my country. when I visited my country I go to the catholic church and I give money or clothes or contribute with school supplies the church handle in very poor neighborhoods, in this way I feel sure my contribution will go the the really needed people.
Posted by twrtinglight on Tue, Aug 15, 2006 12:44 PM ET
The best advice I ever encountered on this topic came from posters in the NYC subway that said "Please do give to the homeless. Just don't do it here." The point? There are many charities that feed, clothe, and house the homeless (surely this is true even in the Dominican Republic) and all of them are a better investment than giving money to individuals on the street.
Posted by asciiman2000 on Tue, Aug 15, 2006 1:07 PM ET
The bare truth is that the poor, maimed and the down trodden will continue to exist everywhere especially in the under-developed countries of the world. Truely, there are some able-bodied beggars who are willing to work but cannot find any job. Something has to be done fast to re-distribute the world's wealth before some species of people become extinct. I will advice everyone to keep giving as the "spirit" leads you.
Posted by tolistolisng on Thu, Aug 17, 2006 7:28 AM ET
Like most people I've been solicited for money by supposedly homeless people because they need food. I've offered to buy them a meal at a nearby fast food establishment. In about a few dozen times this has happened only one person has taken my offer to buy him a meal. The rest acted insulted and kept asking for the money instead. If you need a meal, I'll offer a meal, if you want money get a job.
Posted by paranah661 on Thu, Aug 17, 2006 10:14 AM ET
First I am a 43 year old mother of 4 and My self and My Ex husband have both served the Military. My oldest is doing it now. I have lived all Over the Us and I have seen all kinds of Homelessness. I have seen it from the beggers too the truley homeless family and elderly and forgotten hero's that dont beg. They would rather starve than ask you for a cent. They might be huddled on a park bench or sleeping under a freeway. Please do not judge all homeless people for a few beggers. Beggers have been around for thousands of years and as long as they can get free money they will keep begging. If you really want too help, Try Helping at a Food serving line for the Homeless, Or give blankets too them when they are cold. Or coats and maybe some change so they can wash there clothes. And yes a sandwich and a drink would be nice too. I lived in Hawaii for several years and the homeless there are in abundance. There is not very many jobs. And the welfare system in that state is really poor. Housing is extremley poor. Even if they had a Job they would not be able too aford there own place, only threw help from the state and that also is lacking. And yes maybe they need food. But maybe they need toilettries or something like that too.
Posted by butterflieslovlilacs on Thu, Aug 17, 2006 11:27 AM ET
Use your judgement and study the country you are visiting before you go. Scamming and hustling (as well as other ills) are to some extent are products of poverty, not just dishonestly. And some people beg because they have absolutely no other options...even some local charities and churches can't be reliable in some instances. Use your judgement...I personally don't like giving people food with a nice big side of religion. There are no easy answers when it comes to poverty. If you live in the US or any other developed country, please also study and understand that what you do AT HOME also affects the rest of the world. IS that coffee you drink sustainable? Or did a 6 year old in Latin America had to hand pick it at slave wages? Who made those shoes you wear and how much did they get paid? Do you eat a lot of meat? Do you know that developing coutries are exploited to feed that cattle - they consume as much as 735 BILLION kilos of grain from third world coutries (that mostly "developed" coutries consume). That production/space could be used to produce food for humans, or food for export. Do you support greedy corporations? These are just a few examples. Please educate yourself - if you are "shocked" at poverty in third world countries, you haven't been paying attention.
Posted by kool_raul on Thu, Aug 17, 2006 2:55 PM ET
May the entire world be filled with peace and joy love and light ...Om peace peace peace...
Posted by franklindrob@sbcglobal.net on Sat, Aug 19, 2006 1:55 PM ET
if they ain,t crazy or homeless.. tell them to piss off
Posted by peeweespikeralph on Sat, Aug 19, 2006 4:06 PM ET
In 1991, shortly after the death of my husband, I had to attend a convention (for work) in San Francisco. I was living in the East, and had never seen so many homeless people, although I frequently traveled to Washington, Philadelphia, Baltimore, and New York. There were eight people who had regular sleeping and begging spots between the front door of my hotel and the front door of the hotel where I had to attend meetings. The first day, this was a real dilemma. As I was pretty rocky emotionally, but hiding out in my hotel room was not an option, I decided to treat it as a logistics problem - what course of action would cause me the least hassle? The next morning, I gave each of the eight a dollar on my first trip to the convention hotel; thereafter, when I saw one of them, I said hello, but did not give additional money. I did this every morning, and by the end of the week, my "regulars" would intervene to protect me if a beggar from another area accosted me. So, for less that the cost of a meal per day in San Francisco, I purchased both good will and security service. I have no idea what these people did with the money; they were adults, and it was none of my business. What I learned was to approach people as equals, but not to take responsibility for their individual lives. They are where they are, and I am where I am. I give to local charities, and as much as possible vote for people who will administer humane public policy. But I cannot take on everyone's problems; and despite what your parents and various religious organizations may have told you, guilt is not a productive emotion. A little positive action is better for everyone than a whole load of unresolved angst.
Posted by thesharpestpencil on Sat, Aug 19, 2006 9:36 PM ET